Ladies LOVE yourself dont change for anyone.

Hello wadau,kwanza samahanini kwa late updates Its just I am busy busy with Uni. Anyways after that has been said and done, Ladies I want y'all to look at yourself in the mirror and tell yourself that " I am beautiful no matter what, I am strong". You know what really bug me a lot it's the fact of some women who go out there to get their faces and body done,because their boyfriend/husband can love them more. Honey if a man ain't love you then he will never love you no matter how much you try to change yourself. You have to stop and say " This is me, if he can't handle it then screw him". What got me here is that i was reading this article about an Asian woman who wanted to have Plastic Surgery to look like Jessica Alba so she can win back her ex boyfriend. Really ladies?. I am not going to make this whole thing big, but I am going to point out some few things. Before you go all crazy to make your lover happy ask yourself. If he was in same water would he do it for you?. Would your husband/boyfriend get plastic surgery done to look like Will Smith or Tom Cruise?. If the answer is NO, then why the hell should you?. Love yourself no matter what, we're all children of GOD.Therefore, we're all beautiful and unique in our own ways. In order to be loved unconditionally you have to love yourself first. ALWAYS LOVE YOURSELF, NEVER CHANGE FOR NOBODY,IF THOSE PEOPLE WANTS YOU IN THEIR LIVES THEN NO MATTER HOW YOU LOOK THEY WILL BE THERE. SELF-ESTEEM IS VERY IMPORTANT.